Thursday, April 9, 2009

A New Little Eric


Eric Joseph
Born 7:20am
April 4, 2009
19 inches, 7 lbs. 5 oz. (Our little peanut!)
Photos to come!


We named him after our friend, Eric Terhune! It was an emotional delivery and we are so thankful that though there has been a parting, God has also brought a new life!

God bless this new baby! To read more about Eric's dear friends, go here.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

News Hour

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Note from a Brother

The note below is from Noah Stuth, who served with Eric on his last day and whom our family had the privilege of meeting at the 29 Palms Memorial Service, a tribute to Eric and several others who gave their lives last year. Thank you, Noah, for your kind words and for helping us to remember our Hero.





Dear Dan and Joy Terhune,

For the past few days I've been on the road touring prospective schools. This is the first time I've checked my email in a week. I apologize for the tardiness of my response; I hope there are not any time constraints causing undo stress. I would be more than glad to recall the events of Eric's last moments:

On June Nineteenth of 2008, in support of Afghan National Police (ANP) first squad with the attachment of Capt. Eric Terhune ( he was in my truck, 3rd in the patrol order) was on a mission in the Farah province to conduct a raid and capture known Taliban leaders. The primary mission proved futile, but follow-on missions led us to three suspected Taliban cooperatives who the ANP detained.

Between the location of the arrests and our return to base a white sedan fired upon our patrol. Our first two trucks along with several ANP trucks returned fire to the assailant who managed to escape our initail birage of fire. Our squad pursued the fleeing sedan untill it was discovered abandoned in a village on the banks Farah Rud river. There was a blood trial leading from the car into the village. While I directed the men in my tuck to maintain a watchful position near the car on the village a team of Marines, one civilian (Wes Walker), and myself followed the blood trail which yeilded the discover of two discarded RPGs in an irrigation canal, but not the insurgents.

After the initial sweep through of the village, Sgt Rollins and Sgt Swedberg (the squad leaders present) consulted with the ANP leadership and decided to conduct a final, joint sweep of the river bed as it was apparent that our assailants were injured and hiding somewhere in the vicinity.

Lance Corporal Andrew Whitacre, Captain Eric Terhune, and I moved through the village as the rest patrolled through a field adjacent. When appearently all the men were in the open an enemy position fired upon them with heavy small arms fire from a well fortified courtyard. Instantly my team ran out of the village to the field where a majority of the patrol was pinned down. We used the best position available to us to provide cover fire for the pinned-down Marines while Sgt Rollins and Cpl. Flores attempted to maneuver on the enemy position. The two advancing Marines determined entry into the courtyard implausable and retreated under heavy fire. Realizing this Eric, Andrew, and I picked up our fire to alleviate the situation. Rollins and Flores found refuge, but were invariably pinned-down. There were now five Marines and one interpreter unable to defend themselves and vulnerable to enemy fire.

The trucks with the heavy guns couldn't establish adequate suppressing fire at that moment; our only recourse was to call air support. Eric being the foward air controller had two missions now: establish communication with air and provide suppressing fire to protect his fellow Marines. This situation forced him to shoot his rifle and talk on the radio simultaneously which he accomplished by rolling from around a mud wall on top of me between radio transmissions and firing on enemy machine gun positions 75 meters to our direct front. His courage and composure was amazing.

While Eric attempted to talk to air a heavy volley of enemy fire errupted,and he was shot through his side. The injury immediately incapacitated Eric as his body succumbed to shock only seconds after the fact. He was only a few feet from my right side; Hospital Man Rumbles assisted me in moving his body to cover and performed life saving steps, but Eric had already succumbed to his injury.

Bearing witness to Eric's intrepidity and gross selflessness at the time and for the rest of my life was and will be a tremendous inspiration against adversity and imminent danger. If it wasn't for his heroic actions that day I wouldn't be here today along with several others who are. All too often in war the wager for protecting others' lives is to forfeit your own. He made that sacrifice - for that I'm eternally grateful.

Thank you,

Noah Stuth

Sunday, November 30, 2008

The Lion and the Lamb

With all the joy surrounding Christmas, there will still remain a bit of sorrow. Usually we ask the question, "When will you be coming home?" This year, we know the answer to that question, but we also have hope in the fact that one day, we will be reunited when the rest of us come Home.

Until that day, we rejoice in the beautiful memories you left behind, your legacy of strength, and courage but most of all in the tenderness of your heart and gentleness of your spirit.



Christmas 2006, Eric and Jaxon, St. Joseph, MI

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

We Remember You

This blog comes in handy. On 9/11 and on Veterans Day, I use a PPT projector to display photos of Eric for my students at the private school where I currently teach World History. I show them pictures of my brave cousin and tell them about our life together, the last email we received, and the honorable sacrifice he made for our freedom. I remind them that there are people still fighting so that we can sit in a classroom and teach freely, and learn freely.

My students are never so silent. The room fills with reverence as the impact of Eric's life takes shape. And then we break the silence by singing the Marine's Hymn. Small ways to remember a great man.

As long as I live and breathe, I will tell people about you, Eric. I want them to know who you are and what you gave. I want your story to remain until the day we can retell it together.

Friday, November 7, 2008

Papa's Prayer



November 1, 2008
El Soledad Memorial for Eric Daniel Terhune

Dear Heavenly Father:

This is November, the month our forefathers have designated as a special time for Thanksgiving. . . so it is altogether fitting that we gather here today to thank you for this sacred place specifically set aside to honor those who served our country with extravagant zeal above and beyond the call of duty. Their lives serve as a reminder that freedom is not free, and that often the medium of exchange is the life's book of those we cherish dearly and love so much. So easy it is for us to take for granted all the blessings you have showered on our great nation, often taking little note of the terrible price of those blessings which are in such short supply throughout the rest of the world. Thank you, Lord, for those men of vision and wisdom who selected this beautiful site, where we are gathered today to remember all who have honorably served our country, including our precious Eric who more than self his country loved, and freedom more than life. We are especially thankful for Eric's written as well as verbal testimony affirming as a young man that he accepted Jesus Christ as his personal Savior thus removing the sting of death which otherwise would be so very unbearable. Because of Eric's trust in you, Lord, he often stated that should it be his lot to lay down his life for his country, he had little to fear since death for the believer is simply to be absent from the body and present with the Lord.

Do we miss him? Yes, Lord, we do. But we take great comfort in your assurance as given in I Cor. 2:5, "The eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which you hath prepared for them that that love you!" Not only did Eric serve his country well, but he do so standing firm in his faith -- no matter the cost. What a great example for those of us he left behind, Lord, and for this we are especially thankful grateful today. Yes, Lord, we grieve over our great loss, but at the same time we rejoice, knowing Eric is now safely home with you after proving himself to be a great patriot and man of value, worthy to be numbered among all those other great and faithful American heroes etched in stone here today.

Last but not least, dear Lord, thank you for Capt. Gordon Topper and all others whose planning, hard work and thoughtfulness resulted in such an extraordinary honor accorded Eric, as well as his family, here today. What a great demonstration of "Semper Fi" as well as a living exhibit of how the United States Marine Corps takes care of its own! Thank you also, Lord, for each and every one here, many of whom traveled great distances to witness this noble celebration today. Grant all a safe trip home, and for those active duty Marines and other service personnel facing deployment, we urgently pray in Jesus Name for their early and safe return.

In His name we lift our prayer,

Monday, November 3, 2008

A Selfless Marine


Eric's own band of brothers gathered the funds to commemorate him at Mt. Soledad, a veteran memorial over looking the Pacific Ocean. We met there this past weekend for the dedication of the plaque. Among the awards listed and the honors given, the phrase that stood out to me the most was inscribed at the bottom and it said, "A Selfless Marine". It spoke to me about how Christlike he was: he answered the highest calling, to lay down his life for another; he drank the cup he was given and was obedient even unto death.